Today I’ll Give You Some tips on the most important art in the world : the art of not giving a fuck.
Not giving a fuck is a skill that some people are born with, but it can be gained by making some life changes and improvements. The easiest way to stop giving a fuck is to realize the ONE thing.
We’re all gonna die in the end. So what the hell does it matter anyway?
Okay cool, let’s get to it!
#1 AVOID POINTLESS ARGUMENTS
The reason you even give a fuck about what other people think might be that you are programming yourself to think that way. If somebody says Or thinks something you disagree with and always debate it, it programs you to care about what this person said.
Most people are stubborn, they will stay convinced about their own truths and aren’t really looking to have a rational discussion and it’s pointless to even try debating something.
In those cases, you should just ignore the people and stick to your beliefs.
Besides, you shouldn’t feel personally attacked just because somebody disagrees with your opinions.
I mean C’mon if somebody disagrees with me or tries starting an argument with me, you think I’m gonna be even remotely phased by it? Hell No, I’m not. I do shit’s for my happiness or yeah of course Money! if I’m not getting paid to debate or fight with someone, then you better believe I’m not even gonna bother thinking about it.
It’s not worth my precious brain juice to focus on some random guy who doesn’t like me.
I got way better shit to do than worry about what one dude says about me, and you do too,
So, CUT THAT BULLSHIT OUT.
#2 REALIZE THAT NOBODY GIVES A FUCK ABOUT YOU
Seriously, everybody is so wrapped up and entangled in their own lives that they don’t have time to worry about what you’re doing 24/7.
Besides, nobody cares THAT much about what other people are doing since they’re always focused on themselves and their own lives.
You think the random person walking down the street is gonna remember that you tripped and fell in front of a group of people? Or your class teacher gave you punishments or whatever? Hell No he isn’t, and if he does, he’ll forget about it 5 minutes later and never think about the incidence again.
Once you realize nobody cares, and that they’re gonna immediately forget that you even exist, then everything becomes easier. And on the off chance that somebody does care about what you’re doing then you shouldn’t give a fuck about it either because what does one person’s opinion matter to you? Absolutely nothing!
you can’t control the actions or thoughts of other people, all you can control is your reaction to them.
You always have a choice. So just choose to not give a fuck.
EASY ENOUGH RIGHT?
#3 DEVELOP STONE-COLD CONFIDENCE
Oh yeah, this is shourya’s pro tip!
(Be confident on your package) you Give the best package possible ! you are the best thing happened with anyone!
Be confident! Be confident! Be Confident! CONFIDENCE is very necessary to not giving a fuck.
If you believe in yourself and abilities, you are less likely to care about the opinions of others, because you are convinced about yourself. You don’t need approval or validation from anyone else.
The BEST way to improve your confidence is to ACTUALLY feel good about yourself.
& one more thing I want to add. Why do people write picture approvals on their fb posts? Do you need approvals of others before posting your own pictures on your own profile? I just don’t get it. Its just my OPIONION! You guys can totally ignore this point :p anyway.
#4 DO BOLD SHIT
Not giving a fuck is a habit, it doesn’t just happen overnight.
An easy way to erase insecurities is to beat them out.
Do shit that makes you feel really uncomfortable and do it often because this will force you to stop caring so much what people think and shift your mindset to that of a confident god.
You can start by doing small shit like saying hi hello to a random people in public, ( you can say hi to me down in the comments, did you know? Haha…
You need to get into the habit of being down for whatever life throws at you.
Advice to my single boi’s. if you see a hot girl, just go talk to her, fuck it, what do you have to lose?
NOTHING! Exactly. So Do It
Having this bold mentality and approach will make your life 10 times better.
#5 SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE YOU ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT
You should be around positive people who get you and see your vision.
When all you hear is doubt from people, it can go straight to your head, but if you have a really deep relationship with a few people who understand you and encourage you,
You’ll care less about anything that other people say, because those people don’t really know you.
THEIR JUDGEMENT ISN’T ACCURATE,
Whereas the judgment of people that really know you actually means something.
It also simplifies your process of caring what people think. If you only care about the onions of a few people you actually love and support, then you have no reason to even flinch at the opinions of other people, since they don’t matter to you!
And that my friend wraps it up!
–AVOID POINTLESS ARGUMENTS
-REALIZE THAT NOBODY GIVES A FUCK ABOUT YOU
– DEVELOP STONE-COLD CONFIDENCE
– DO BOLD SHIT
– SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE YOU ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT
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